This is the letter.
As you know I came to the forum to have a breakthrough in my relationship
with you. As people have gotten up to speak I have seen aspects of my way of
being reflected in their stories. As I listened the possibility has dawned
on me that while I have complained of being bullied by you I have actually
been the bully. I have been so stubborn as to make our marriage unworkable.
I have resisted nearly everything you suggested, all to show you that you
are not the boss of me. I guess after all these years and divorce on the
table it should be pretty clear to both of us that that’s the case.
The possibility I have invented for myself and my life is the possibility of
head over heels love, passionate, compassionate, generous and unstoppable. I
have also taken on the possibility of abundance. Years ago you asked me to
create a relationship and invite you to be enrolled in it. Last night I
finally did that. I don’t blame you for being cynical about that invitation.
A less persistant man would have divorced me years ago.
You are the Samson that holds up the roof of the wortld over me and our
family. I have been Delialh pretending to love you while undermining your
strength. I am so sorry for that. I realise that for us to have the
relationship of my possibility I will have to give up making you wrong. I am
committed to having this possibility in my life. I will have head-over-heels
love with someone and you are my first choice.
I know you feel the relationship with our children is secondary and I have
always made you wrong for that. I want our relationship to be complete
freeing you to be a father to them. Will you be their father? No amount of
mother love can compensate them for the loss of you. I am also standing in
the possibility of our children attending the teen forum. I see how I have
enrolled them in my stories about you to their detriment. I want them to
have the loving relationship with you I know is possible.
Now I have created a possibility for my life do you think it is one I might
enroll you in? I invite you to share a life with me more wonderful than we
could ever have apart.
My offer to you is nothing less than myself, utterly, totally and
With all my love Jenni
Link to Post about the remedy.
Link to 19 for 19 where you can pay me AUD19 if you think my spending 19 days in jail defending YOUR RIGHTS is worth AUD19 to you.
The lies and hypocrisy that women have been putting forward are collapsing.
Do NOT let these women off the hook or they will be the same again in the next generation.
Peter Andrew Nolan
aka Joschua Brandon Boehm