We even have a saying in english that goes
“it is a womans prerogative to change her mind”
But for men it is
“a man is as good as his word”
Now we have young men waking up to the fact that women hate them so much that they see men as merely a utility to be used to gain resources for themselves.
I have helped to persuade many young men to cancel their engagements and recently one such young man asked me to suggest ideas for a “Dear Jane” letter. I create this video for him. However, lets also give him some text in a blog post because this will work for other young men as well.
In this text I do not expect a young man to put ALL the text as in cut and paste. He migh select portions, he might add his own words, he might get some advice from other men.
What I am putting below are ideas to feed in to the process for a young man to write a “Dear Jane” letter to end his engagement.
Comments below. I would be interested to know what you think.
as the date for our wedding has come closer and closer I have found myself having second throughts.
What I was once so sure about, I started feeling uneasy about. I can not put my finger on why I started to feel uneasy but I did.
Since I was about to make vows to be with you for the rest of my life and I take these vows very seriously, and I was feeling uneasy, I decided to search the web to learn about the experiences of older men who have gone in to marriag before me to see what I could learn.
I expected to find plenty of men who reported good experiences of being married.
I expected to find men who were encouraging me for this next big step in my life.
I expected to find that all is well and good and to be re-assured by older men that what I was doing was good for me and the future children I hope to have with you.
I absolutely, sincerely expected positive comments to be in the vast majority as I have always been told Marriage is a good thing.
I was shocked and stunned to find that more than 95% of the feedback I got from older men was negative about marriage.
I was shocked and stunned to see many men take a great deal of their own time to explain to me that what I was about to do was very detrimental for me personally.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that women initiate 90% of divorces.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that women get custody of the children in more than 90% of cases.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that women get up to 100% of the assets of the marriage and are often also awarded child support and alimony over and above the 100% of assets given to the woman.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that pre-nuptual agreements are rountinely thrown out of courts and are not honoured.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that men commit suicide in divorce at a rate of 8 times that of women who have actually been raped.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that women can commit perjury in divorce courts and this perjury will be taken as true and acted on.
For example, if we have a daughter and you falesly accuse me of raping my own daughter I will certainly be arrested and jailed and then tried in a kangaroo court where I will almost certainly be found guilty and then jailed for 10 to 15 years.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that women can make false claims to police for domestic violence and I will be assaulted, arrested, kidnapped, transported and jailed without so much as even a false allegation. A mere claim that you are “fearful” of me with no claim of any actual violence is enough for me to be removed from my own home.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that even such a clearly false claim is enough for me to be removed from my own home and not allowed to see my own children but I will be sent the bill for them.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that the divorce courts are criminal in nature and that all the lawyers know this and so do many women.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that even though the women know the divorce courts are criminal in nature they choose to use them to criminally victimise their husbands, sometimes for more than a decade.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that women are free to go about society slandering a man to ruin his ability to earn money and then the man is routinely jailed for failing to pay alimony and child support he can not earn because the woman has slandered him so he can not get job.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that even when men kill themselves in hopelessness at how much they can be criminally victimised in the full view of the public that women will still hurl hateful abuse at the man in to the grave after him.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that even when men kill themselves in hopelessness at how much they can be criminally victimised in the full view of the public that their own mothers will not speak out for their dead sons even if they have other married sons who might suffer the same fate.
I was shocked and stunned to see a transcript of a woman family law lawyer say, in a divorce court, that the court should not concern itself with equity and justice for the man and no one objected to this statement. Truly shocked and stunned.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that even when a man stands up against these sorts of blatant crimes and proves these crimes on video and publishes all his divorce documents to prove these crimes that all women and all members of the police, the law society, the judiciary and the relevant government will continue to commit such crimes that have been clearly exposed.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that virtually every single man is willing to talk about his divorce talks about how women, women like you, pretend to love us men until the children arrive and then once the children arrive the woman totally changes because she knows she has the man on the hook. Virtually every man I talked to told me women are liars who decieve young men and that you never really know how evil a woman is until you meet her in a divorce court.
I was shocked and stunned that there is even one man who was brave enough to publish everything about his divorce in to the public to prove what all these other men were saying was true.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that when women saw this evidence and knew full well that this man has been criminally victimised for many years they attacked him and lied about him rather than helped him and supported him gain his path to justice.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that these crimes women commit in divorce courts are well known to all politicians, all members of the law society, all judges, most police and most women and yet NONE of these people are doing anything to defend men from these criminal women.
I was shocked and stunned to find out that this has been going on for decades and even though I, a young man, am considering marriage, no one who knows me felt it was appropriate to warn me of what I was getting myself in to so that I could make this decision based on full and complete information.
My own mother and father have not warned me about the risks I am running. You have not warned me about the risks I am running.
Having read the testimony of many men.
Having talked to many men to asset the veracity of their testimony.
Having read actual divorce court documents.
Having watched actual footage from a divorce court.
Having seen the criminal abuse the man who published these documents to warn young men like me was subjected to for doing so.
I have decided I will not be getting married.
Not to you.
Not to any woman.
Marriage is a scam.
Marriage is a trap.
And you and all women know it and you go along with it.
Your mother knows marriage is a scam and a trap and she did not warn me.
My mother knows marriage is a scam and a trap and she did not warn me.
I am committed to never getting married and never putting myself in a position where one false statement from a woman can ruin my life.
I am not going to do it.
My life is too valuable to me to put myself in that position.
We are over.
I do not want to discuss this.
I do not want you to ever contact me in any way ever again.
We are over and I am moving on with my life in my commitment to never get married, never live with a woman, never enter in to any relationship with a woman where I could have my life ruined by one false claim.
We are over.
Get used to it.
I will say one last thing.
Now that I have found the truth from men who have been so criminally victimised for so long I will go out in to the world and tell as many other young men as I can that you women are evil because you know this is happening and you try and sucker us young men in to marriage anyway.
If you and your peers ever want to have the chance for your daughters to marry then you had better get started with making sure all those women who have already committed crimes against their husbands are prosecuted to the full extent of the law and the men who are the victims of their crimes are compensated for their injury, harm and loss.
Because I can assure you that young men like me are not even going to THINK about marriage until after we see that women who commit crimes against men get equal sentences and the men who are their victims are compensated for their injury, harm and loss.
Until we see that happening in the full view of the public we are done. And, in my view, most of us will not come back to the plantation even then because you women knew this was going on for decades and you remained silent.
Worse, you attacked the good men who cared about young men like me and who tried to save our lives. Women, thousands of them, actually attacked the men who were TRYING TO SAVE MY LIFE.
There are no words to tell you how disgusted I am with that behaviour of women.
No words indeed.
Nothing you can say and nothing you can do will change my mind.
I have seen the true nature of women through the eyes of older men and, quite frankly, you women scare me. That you can be so evil as to attack men who are trying to save my life while pretending to love some man is scary as hell and I most certainly do not want to have children with such women.
So my only suggestion to you is to make sure all those men whom women have attacked who were trying to save my life are compensated for the crimes they have suffered.
If you want to start down that path the worlds highest profile case of a man criminally victimised in a divorce court is a man called Peter Andrew Nolan and his case file is on the link below.
You and all your women peers can see to it he is paid his USD300 million or more in compensation payments very publicly.
You and all your women peers can see to it his ex wife is jailed in similar conditions to what he was jailed in by Angela Merkel and you can see to is she is jailed for years and years for all the crimes she committed.
That would be case #1. And there are millions more like it.
Until we see women routinely jailed for 5 to 10 years for perjury in divorce courts and men compensated for the injury, harm and loss caused by that perjury?
Don’t even THINK about talking to us men because we are not listening to what you say…we are watching what you do.
Talk is cheap.
Actions speak louder than words.
Here is the link you can get started on.
I wish you good luck in life.